• A Day in the Life,  Things I Like

    Merry Christmas!

    I hope that all your worries and fears are gone, even just for this day. People say that Christmas is magical (at least in movies.) I want to believe that. I want to believe that everyone can be joyful on this day even if the worse has happened in the past. I’m spending time with my family and we are having a fabulous time. A family doesn’t have to be mom and dad, it can be friends. Surround yourself with people who love you and support you. Remember that happiness comes from happenings, so be joyful, be joyful that you woke up and experienced this day. I hope you have…

  • A Day in the Life

    Christmas Trees Go Up Before December

    If you are one of the late people placing their trees up around this time you are probably stressing. There is barely anything to put onto your tree except those plastic balls that are about fifteen dollars for a pack of thirty. They are cute, but not that cute. If you find a decoration you like, it’s only one of them. I would suggest something for the future. Decorate your tree before Thanks Giving. It will make it so much easier for you to enjoy your holiday. I mean you can be super early like me and decorate in October, but that’s only if you have like seven trees. But…

  • A Day in the Life

    What It’s Like to Have a Mental Breakdown On Thanks Giving. (Story Time)

    For one it’s embarrassing. Your crying and everyone is asking what’s wrong. You don’t want to tell them. You also don’t want to admit to your trigger. You absolutely don’t want to say someone hurt your feelings even if you caused them too. You don’t want to take responsibility. It hurts and it’s hard to get people to understand. If you’re like me the holidays bring back memories of trauma. I’ve had a lot of things happen to me around this time. I get really sensitive. It’s no fun and it’s no fun for people to see me cry. So when my dad and I go into it. I broke…

  • Dealing With Stress

    How I’m Handling My OCD During the Holidays

    My biggest OCD trigger is guest. I can’t stand to have guests in the house. I’m not an introvert. I love to be around people, but I don’t like them inside my house. It brings me no joy to think about the things I will have to do after they leave. I go on an entire cleaning spree and it’s not good. So to avoid the stress of doing everything I normally do after guest I have decided to take some actions. If may seem selfish, but there is no reason to let guests go all over my house. I refuse to have any of my stuff stolen or broken.…

  • A Day in the Life

    7 Ways to Survive Thanks Giving

    Thanks Giving is just around the corner and if you’re hosting you have a lot on your plate. Cooking for tens of people and making sure that they have a good time isn’t the easiest task and it’s worse when you’re managing by yourself. Here are some easy tips to survive this Thanks Giving season. First thing first, have your best friends wine and beer around.  These two will help your tolerate any and everyone who is not the best holiday guest. They may just be people you have to put up with because you have too, but don’t worry. Keep your besties around and hide them from annoying family…

  • Things That Bother Me Badly

    Don’t Use the Bathroom

    There is a rule in my house to never use my bathroom. It started when I got older and understood what germs were. When I was younger people using my bathroom never bother me, but I wasn’t the person cleaning it. Once you have to do something yourself, things change. As I went through puberty things become different for me too. I was scared people were going to use my razors. My family assured me that this didn’t happen, but after my aunt went into my bathroom and used my mouthwash, I didn’t care what people were saying. I began to dread guest the older I got. I didn’t want…